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Femy & Robert

New Jersey
Profession: Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Radiation Therapist
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About

Femy

Age: 42
Ethnicity: Asian
Religion: None
Education: MSW
Profession: Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Robert

Age: 41
Ethnicity: Asian
Religion: None
Education: BS
Profession: Radiation Therapist

Relationship

Relationship: Married
Years Together: 10 to 15 years
Sexual Orientation: Select Sexual Orientation

Environment

Country: USA
State: New Jersey
Neighborhood: Suburban
Residency: Condominium
Children: None
Pets: Chihuahua

Child Preferences

Age: Newborn to 1 year of age
Gender: Either
Ethnicity: All
Special Needs: Open to discussion

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Letters

Dear Expectant Parent,

Your sacrifice is so giving and noble and it takes a special individual to make such a choice.

Firstly, thank you for the decision you are making. We know this is not an easy one to make, one that we understand is life-changing and impactful. Your sacrifice is so giving and noble and it takes a special individual to make such a choice. Your selflessness and courage gives us the opportunity to build the family we have always dreamed of. We thank you for even taking the time to read about and consider us.

Adoption has always been part of our plan. And you are helping us see this dream come true. There will never be enough thank yous.

Our Why

We are excited to provide a loving home for a child and provide all we can for them.

We always knew we wanted children. After we began seriously dating and talking about our future, we knew adoption was something we wanted to do if we had the opportunity.

The plan was always to have one biologically and adopt. But things don’t always go exactly as planned. However, it gave us the opportunity we needed to move forward with
adoption!

We are excited to provide a loving home for a child and provide all we can for them.
We can’t wait to be parents!

Our Story

After 8 years of dating, we got engaged and started filling that home with things we talked about during our Target dates.

We met in the summer of 2002 through mutual friends. We spent that summer building a friendship and getting to know one another. Femy became sick that summer and spent some time in the hospital. Rob came to visit her every day, which helped Femy focus on something other than her health.

From then on, we have been inseparable. We grew up together and experienced life together. We learned from one another. Rob introduced Femy to new food experiences, like sushi. Femy introduced Rob to the world of Harry Potter and musicals. While dating as broke college kids, one of the romantic dates we would go on would be walking through the aisles of Target looking at things we would buy for our future home.

After 8 years of dating, we got engaged and started filling that home with things we talked about during our Target dates. 10 years later we are ready for the next step, filling our home with things for a child to grow up in and be loved!

Our Promise

We promise to never take for granted the difficult decision you made to help us achieve this goal.

Becoming parents has been a goal we have had with one another early on in our relationship. We promise to never take for granted the difficult decision you made to help us achieve this goal.

We promise to provide a home filled with laughter, love, understanding, and support. We promise to encourage our child to be curious, explore, make mistakes, and learn. We promise to work hard to provide every opportunity this child deserves and more.

More than anything, we promise to love this child more than our hearts have ever known to love before.

Thank you for taking the time to learn about us and consider us.

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Our Adventures
We love to go on all kinds of adventures! Whether it is going to a nearby park or zoo or traveling across the world, we love to explore and try new things. Trying new foods is one of our favorite things to do together. We have traveled across the country to places like Califo...
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Our Village
Our sense of family goes beyond our parents and siblings. We are lucky enough to be surrounded by cousins and friends who feel like family. Our village will be additional support for a child in our lives. They are all excited to go to sporting events, dance recitals, and school...
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Rob’s Family
My parents immigrated from a tiny Asian island named Taiwan. My family lived in NJ & NY area most of our lives. My parents separated when we were young, but both are retired and currently living in Taiwan. I also have two brothers - Jeff (Older) & Albert (Younger). Both live in C...
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Femy’s Family
My parents came to the US from the Philippines. We lived in Texas but were raised in NJ. I have 2 younger sisters (Gigi and Vicky) and an older cousin (Jan), who are my best friends. My parents and my sisters live close by, and we spend a lot of time with them. Both my parents...
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Meet Sourdough!
This our dog, Sourdough, also known as Dodo. He came to our lives as a foster in February 2023 and was officially adopted March 2023. He is about 8 years old and full of zest! He likes to play soccer and chase his own tail. He loves snacks and napping. He dislikes the dishwasher...
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Our Home
Our home is our sanctuary. We have worked hard to make it feel cozy, warm, and safe. We hope to be able to create safety and comfort for a child. Our neighborhood is diverse and has many cultures for children to be exposed to. We have parks nearby, as well as several performing...
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Fun Facts about Femy
- Femy loves to bake! Cookies, cakes and cupcakes. She would bake all day if she could. - Femy loves going to games with Rob, but mostly for the food and people watching! - Femy loves animals. Some of her favorite places are zoos and aquariums. - Femy and Rob love traveling. E...
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Meet Femy by Rob
The first thing I want to say, I love Femy so much! She has been my support & best friend for over 20 years. She has a personality everyone loves. She is friendly, witty, and caring. Everywhere she goes, she connects with people and makes new friends. Married together, she is alw...
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