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Lucy & Mark

New Jersey
“If we're lucky enough to be chosen as adoptive parents by you, we promise to give your child a home full of warmth, stability, laughter, and love. Faith will shape our days. Books will fill our shelves. Curiosity and kindness will guide how we parent. And honor, belonging, and gratitude will always surround your place in our family.”
Profession: Stay-at-home mom & Investor
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About

Lucy

Age: 42
Ethnicity: White
Religion: Christian
Denomination: Presbyterian
Education: Master of Business Administration
Profession: Stay-at-home mom

Mark

Age: 43
Ethnicity: White
Religion: Christian
Denomination: Presbyterian
Education: Master of Business Administration
Profession: Investor

Relationship

Relationship: Married
Years Together: 10 to 15 years
Sexual Orientation: Heterosexual parent/s

Environment

Country: USA
State: New Jersey
Neighborhood: Suburban
Residency: House
Children: Biological children
Pets: 1 dog (golden retriever)

Child Preferences

Age: Newborn to 1 year of age, 1 to 3 years of age, 4 to 7 years of age
Gender: Either
Multiple Children: All, Twins, Triplets or more, Sibling groups
Ethnicity: All
Special Needs: Open to discussion

Certification

Gladney Center for Adoption verified this family completed an adoption homestudy including: background checks, character references, official interviews, required training, home inspection, financial review, etc. and are approved for adoption.
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Letters

Dear Expectant Mom,

And honor, belonging, and gratitude will always surround your place in our family.

We don’t know your story, but we know you’ve come here in love, courage, and strength. We also know you face an incredibly significant decision, as you consider making an adoption plan for your child. We hope our profile gives you a glimpse into our life, so you can envision what it might look like to step into each other’s stories.

If we’re lucky enough to be chosen as adoptive parents by you, we promise to give your child a home full of warmth, stability, laughter, and love. Faith will shape our days. Books will fill our shelves. Curiosity and kindness will guide how we parent. And honor, belonging, and gratitude will always surround your place in our family.

Without knowing your name, we pray for you and the road you navigate. Thank you for taking the time to learn about us.

With love,

Lucy & Mark

About Us

And we both love being parents and share a vision for growing our family — and connecting with yours — through adoption.

We met on the first night of graduate school in Boston. A friend had told Mark to look out for this “great Christian girl from the South.” No one had told Lucy to be on the lookout for a hilarious, gregarious guy from New Jersey. Within an hour of meeting, we were deep in conversation and painful-belly-laughing like old friends.

A few months later, Mark asked Lucy on a date, and she went from “maybe” to “madly in love” really quickly. Fast forward a year and a half or so: we married in Lucy’s hometown and then moved into an enchanting Upper West Side apartment in Manhattan. We spent nearly a decade there, our favorite city in the world, before moving to a suburb in New Jersey that still gives us great access to the friends, shows, baseball games, and pizza of New York City but with a bit more space and small-town charm.

As a pair, we have a spirit of adventure and curiosity. We eagerly embrace the uncertainties of life with anticipation and a deep faith, looking for ways that God might be moving in the highs and the lows and in the relationships He weaves together. And we both love being parents and share a vision for growing our family — and connecting with yours — through adoption. “

Why Adoption?

John and Michael both have made our family so much more beautiful, and we would consider it an incredible privilege to grow our family further by becoming adoptive parents.

When we first hoped to become parents after getting married, we ran into delays with infertility for a number of years, and then we unexpectedly learned we would have a biological son, John. Around this time, we also learned we would gain a new nephew, Michael, through adoption. John and Michael both have made our family so much more beautiful, and we would consider it an incredible privilege to grow our family further by becoming adoptive parents. “

Our Promise

But above all, we promise to honor and respect the beautiful bond that exists between you and your child.

If you choose to place your child with us, please know that he or she will be surrounded by love, support, and opportunity. We are so eager to grow our family through adoption and will do so with open arms and overflowing hearts.

We promise that your child will know, through all of life, that he or she is deeply and unconditionally loved. Not based on achievement or behavior, but on being God’s work of art.

We promise to protect your child with all of our being. As screens, social media, and more burden childhood today, we will take the greatest care to protect your child’s mind, heart, and body.

We promise to encourage your child to dream big and to embrace his or her unique gifts and talents. We will be there for every milestone, every triumph, and every challenge.

But above all, we promise to honor and respect the beautiful bond that exists between you and your child. We know the importance of open communication and are committed to maintaining a relationship that honors your role as birth mother and the incredible love that led to adoption.

Thank you for taking a moment to get to know our family. As the Bible says in Numbers 6:24-26, may the Lord bless you and keep you; may the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; may the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.

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Our Families
"We come from big-hearted families who gather often—at the lake in Alabama, the beach in Florida, around the dinner table in New Jersey, or anywhere in between. Lucy’s parents still live in the house where she was born (several states away), and Mark’s parents still live in the h...
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Our Home
"We love our home! We live in a New Jersey suburb of New York City. Our house is on a quiet street, a short walk from a charming village of restaurants and shops. Because our street gets hardly any traffic, the neighborhood kids run from yard to yard and share swings and trampoli...
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About Archie
Archie is our 78-pound golden retriever who thinks he’s human. He greets everyone like they’re his best friend, walks John to and from school without a leash, and gets lots of compliments for being the sweetest and most beautiful dog in all the world (sure, some of them are from...
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About John
Born in 2017, John fills our home with laughter, tons of imagination, more facts about animals than our memories can hold, and a lifetime supply of “stuffies.” He is joyful, kind, and smart. He loves a good book, pretend battles, friends, cousins, and school. One trait we think i...
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About Mark (written by Lucy)
"Mark has the warmest smile and a contagious laugh that draws you in, and he truly loves and finds value in all people (which means everyone he talks with feels so loved). He’s as brilliant as he is approachable, with a steel-trap memory, a hilarious sense of humor, and a knack f...
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About Lucy (written by Mark)
Lucy is one of those rare individuals who is incredibly capable, organized, and brilliant, while also being warm, humble, and funny. She is servant hearted—always going the extra mile for others—like when she trekked miles in NYC when Covid began, to take food and supplies to a f...
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A few values that guide our family:
"• Trust in God: The center of God’s will is the source of your greatest happiness. • Always be grateful: Even in hardship, believe that “Many, Lord my God, are the wonders you have done.” (Psalm 40:5) • Don’t sweat the small stuff: As G.K. Chesterton wrote, “An adventure is a...
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